EMPOWERING LIVES WITH PURPOSE:
Ladies who have men in their lives that may be hurting as a result of a partner’s past mistake, you have hope.
Being set free from the past can oftentimes happen quickly for some while it could be a step-by-step process for others, depending on what God may be teaching. I’ve dealt with this for years but God delivered me from the pain of my personal past mistakes and the guilt I carried out of marriage! It doesn’t mean I don’t ever think about it, I do, I just no longer dwell on the sin or mistake.
“You” sweet woman of God need to be patient and have a mindset that says” I will pray as long as it takes” to keep the voices of the past at bay so that my husband or myself no longer listens to the “toxic voices.”
Pray that God enlarges all understanding and that He makes all things new in both of your minds. Pray that God gives you and your spouse or fiancé the mind of Christ so that you can clearly discern voices from the past that may rise up. May you be able to quickly shut them down with truth from God’s word. Pray it with all your might! Guilt and shame need deliverance from your mind or your partners.
Pray that God binds up wounds, restores the soul, and helps release either person from past wounds in order to heal eachother. When healing occurs both can both walk in freedom together as God has called a married couple to do.
You can learn not to live in the past but learn from it, break out of it, then away from it and move forward by faith and by renewing your mind.
Please take a moment to read Ephesians 4:22-24
Put off your “old conduct,” and put on the “new man.”
Pray without ceasing. God will wipe every tear from your eyes because the former things have passed away.
I’m not saying it’s easy but I am saying with God, all things are possible.
Patience and prayer change things! Renew your minds together with God. It is worth every effort.